PRODUCTIVITY IS A FORM OF STRUGGLE
“There's a great difference between struggle and effort. Our physical constitution as humans involves effort. But struggle is effort laced with emotion and desperation.”
-Stuart Wilde, from Life Was Never Meant to Be a Struggle
I come from a generation where desperate is one of the lamest things you could be. Cue Destiny’s Child’s “Bug a Boo” and 2Pac’s “All About U.” So imagine my surprise when I realized I was functioning in the energy of desperation. Yuck!
PRODUCTIVITY IS A FORM OF STRUGGLE
By Farah Lawal Harris, 2024
Now before you label me a “pick-me,”
I live with an abundance of love.
But living with adult ADHD
grants me a seat on the struggle bus.
Struggle is doing your best,
but it's never enough.
Struggle is hyper-focus because
“I just need to get it done
and accomplish everything in one day.”
Desperation is speed-reading through rabbit holes
with 26 tabs open in Google Chrome.
To my ADHD mind,
I'm being productive.
But my spirit says
productivity is a form of struggle
when it forces one to ignore their needs
to achieve the vision of a corporation.
Productivity deprioritizes humanity—
turns person into machine
with the goal of correcting the past
and perfecting the future.
On this day, I reprioritize the present.
On this day, I breathe.
On this day, I prosper, treat my ADHD
as the gift it truly is,
a bridge to empathy.
Today, I choose ease.